Read an excerpt: Think Like A Guy For centuries when it came to getting a guy, women made the same mistakes over and over again. I’m sure I’ll talk to you soon.” Why shouldn’t you take his phone number? If a guy likes you and he wants to hang out with you and you give him your phone number, he will call! I know you may be saying, “Oh, but if I get his number instead of giving mine out, then the ball’s in my court!In modern times especially, most girls fall flat on their face before they ever make it to the altar. If he insists, shrug your shoulders; cock your head slightly to the side, and say, “No thanks. If he didn’t really like you and has no intention of hanging out with you but he took your phone number anyway, he won’t call. If not, let me break it down into a basic equation. ” Listen, Kournikova, you gotta get on that tennis court before you can even get the ball.But in reality, they’re pretty simple to break down once you realize they don’t think like women think. No, my friend, you cannot go down the same path these women went down. You have to possess the tips that men subconsciously live by, the tips this book will reveal to you. Tip #1You meet a guy, he wants to exchange numbers. Even if you meet a guy and you’re convinced he’s the exception — convinced he thinks like you do and not like other guys — you’re wrong. Because in the end, the best way to land a guy is by thinking like one. Your heart flutters when that hotline blings and your hand seems out of place when it's not in his. Still, that doesn't stop you from putting on an Academy Award-winning dramatic scene.Not to mention, you pepper each other's faces in sweet kisses at every waking moment. Though he may see through your "oops, I didn't mean to call" bullsh*t, he'll probably let you slide. One minute you're high on the warmth of their attention, the next minute you're frozen out and left wondering what happened. Whether you call it push/pull, on/off, or hot and cold, the end result is the same. Whether done consciously or unconsciously, this type of behavior activates longing and pursuit. If we don't understand the game of hot and cold, we can find ourselves pulled into a drama of confusion. Understanding this type of behavior is crucial even for those of you committed to not playing games. Behavioral extremes indicate a power play is being employed. Once we have the ability to see hot and cold for what it is, we're less likely to suffer its negative effects.
You pose suggestively with your guy friends and flirt with your ex on Twitter, solely to piss off your new boo.Generally speaking, I'd say that guys acting interested and then disappearing is no different than women acting interested and then disappearing, with one major exception.And that's the default stance of each, meaning, men are typically the ones pursuing interactions with women (the hunter mode), while women, on the other hand, are usually on the receiving end of advances from men.At that stage, few of us think about his ex-girlfriend's posts on Instagram or feel the urge to vandalize his car. Browsing through his social media isn't that big a deal, as long as you're stealthy about it. I, for one, tend to live inside my head too much, overthinking his every gesture and ruining that cocoon of happiness. You're constantly spilling his every move to your girl squad. You have too many glasses of wine and suddenly your fingers are firing off a series of drunken texts to your guy. If you find yourself e-screaming about how he won't let you meet his mom, however, you may have moved on to Level 3 crazy.